After 20 years of marriage, many couples think they have it all figured out. They know each other's likes and dislikes, and they have a solid routine that works well for them. However, sometimes even the strongest marriages can fall apart after two decades, and there...
Divorce
Steps to take when preparing to file for divorce
Deciding you want a divorce isn’t easy for any New York resident. Although you might want things to be over as quickly as possible, you should never rush the process. Take these steps when preparing to file. Gather financial documents Gather all of your individual and...
Don’t forget about your pension in the divorce
The end of a marriage doesn't have to compromise your retirement. But if your pension is left vulnerable in a Virginia divorce, the financial impacts may be far-reaching and long-lasting. Fortunately, there are some simple steps you can take to make sure your assets...
How can a CDFA be helpful with your divorce in New York?
If your divorce involves complicated financial concerns, you might consider working with a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, or CDFA. A CDFA can help you prepare to negotiate for alimony, the division of assets and retirement benefits and can explain tax law and...
How to comfort your child through your divorce
The effects of divorce on children are unavoidable. However, parents in New York can help their children cope and adapt to the changes resulting from it. Parents might need to put aside their differences to show their children they are still committed to their family,...
How does divorce affect your mental health in New York?
Divorce has an impact on you whether you wanted the divorce or not. You might realize that they aren't compatible with you, yet that doesn't take away the pain. New York is a state that requires grounds for filing for a divorce. Possible reasons include irretrievable...
The link between depression and divorce
Many New York couples facing a divorce might find depression, among other factors, to be the root cause. Unexplained mood swings, irritability, sadness and isolation contribute to an unhealthy relationship. These symptoms also often present in depression which can...
Reasons for divorces
Attitudes toward divorce changed over the past several decades. At one time, divorce stigmatized people unfairly. Today, society is less judgmental towards those who choose to end their marriage. However, many do not understand the common reasons why a marital union...
What steps should you take after being served divorce papers?
When you receive divorce papers in New York, the experience may result in confusion, anger, and grief. Whether you expected to receive the papers or your spouse surprised you with them, the inevitable end of your marriage typically results in a range of emotional...
The uncontested divorce process
Residents of New York have several options when seeking a divorce. One of the most straightforward options is the uncontested divorce. If you and your spouse agree on divorce terms and meet the requirements for residency with a legally accepted reason for the divorce,...